Only one applies while looking for a partner, since the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi is sallam) believed, When someone with whose institution and identity that you are satisfied demands to get married your girl, conform to his own consult. If you don’t do it, we will see corruption and wonderful evil in the world. (Tirmidhi)
Without a doubt, both sides really have to accept to wed one another plus they can not be expected to marry one another . The Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi was actually sallam) said, A female whom has-been formerly partnered provides even more correct about herself than the girl protector, and a virgins consent should be asked about herself (Bukhari and Muslim) Rules of Al-Khutbah (inquire to wed lady along with recognition of the pitch)